Showing posts with label MBA. Show all posts
Showing posts with label MBA. Show all posts

Friday, August 2, 2013

Problems faced by us Indians



We Indians face a number of difficulties in our daily life, Some of which have been existing for a long time. I thought i might list a few problems which most of us face & would agree with.


1.       Unemployment
An MBA degree has become a basic requirement, surprised? Don’t be, Many of my friends even after having done their MBA’s are unemployed.  One major reason for the same is that most of the organizations do not want to hire a FRESHER. Did the employers forget they were in the same shoes once upon a time? I fail to understand why Employers choose to ignore young talented freshers,  why not hire freshers?  Offer better perks and incentives to motivate and bring out the best in them, all they need is just a Chance to prove they can do it!


2.       Underpaid
This is another major issue faced by a lot of people out there who are currently employed.  A few organizations promise a hike after a particular period of time or after the employee is confirmed, however very few stand by that promise. Some Organizations overlook the needs of the employees and continue to maintain a bureaucratic hierarchy due to which it becomes extremely difficult for an employee to express difficulties to the person concerned. Every organization should have a proper system in place which focuses on every employee’s contribution and rewards them accordingly. An appraisal system is a must & in order to retain employees promises done during the interview should be fulfilled.  


3.       Security issues
We boast about having security systems in place but even after several bomb blasts & terror attacks. The numbers of rapes and murders have been on a rise. Every day we hear about a girl either being molested or raped publicly. An ex boyfriend throws acid or hot oil on his ex girlfriend because she chose to move on.  Where are the officials when all this happens? Even after so many incidents happening daily rarely do I find a police official at a railway station & if at all one is found, the checking or duties done by them is zilch. Police officials should make sure everything is in place. Government should make sure duties by officials are being carried out properly, patrolling at wee hours of the night should be strictly made mandatory not just during festivals but also otherwise.



4.       Rigid Work Timings
With the rise in the number of rapes happening in the country today, Parents have become apprehensive towards sending their daughters out in the night or to work till late in the office. Some organizations fail to co-operate and understand this. They don't care if you are working till late, all they want is their work done. Organizations should have flexible work timings in place for women.  If there is a need to stay in the office till late facilities such as drop should be provided or work from home option should be made available.


5.       Admissions in Educational Institutions
Corruption exists everywhere, more so with Educational Institutions.  Some Institutions out there ask for lakhs of rupees for admissions. Most of the parents end up paying the money thinking it is an investment for their child but what about the ones who cannot?  The ones who cannot pay have nowhere to go.  This should be stopped, Investigations should be done and Institutions should be penalised and warned against such practices, so they avoid doing the same in the future.



6.       Racism
No matter how much we say about being a democratic country with liberal views, the fact is most of us are racists & discriminate on basis of caste and color. The fact that products like “Fair and Lovely” exist itself shows how color conscious we are.  Even a groom’s mother talks about wanting a “fair” girl, the other qualities are secondary for them.  A lot still say that a man can work and a woman can’t, she is supposed to stay back home & look after the kids. This attitude should be changed & in my opinion only men can change this. If a man disapproves this kind of behaviour and starts treating his partner equally irrespective of her color, things will definitely change.

6.     Poor Infrastructure 
We pay taxes, we file returns, but the condition of the country - specially the infrastructure remains the same or rather continues to aggravate even further.  Why does the government promise and fail to deliver? So many scams and yet there is no control over corruption. Every monsoon Mumbai faces water logging problems, it becomes extremely difficult to travel during the monsoons as roads turn into swimming pools due to ill drainage system.  Importance should be given to the infrastructure for convenience of the citizens and also to attract tourists instead of scaring them away with a bad experience.

 6.     Society
Our parents are half the times worried about the society, "what will the society think?" , "the society will not accept this", "what will people say?". Half of our problems will be solved if we didn't pay heed to what the society will say, think or do. The society will always speak whether you do good or bad, if we pay attention we are never going to achieve what we want and will always under-perform. We don't live to please the society, so why waste energy over what they will think?

Have you ever felt the need to do something but gave up just because you thought it would not be accepted by the society? What are the problems you face or have faced as an Indian? Do share in!

Thursday, June 13, 2013

On Being a Girl !

Coming from an Indian background where girls are married off at quite an early age it is evident that I have my own share of thoughts or views on various issues.

Today I would majorly concentrate on the most Important and prominent topic “How it feels to be a girl”

I would be dishonest if I said I haven’t had a satisfactory life or haven’t enjoyed it to the fullest. Thanks to my Dad who had his firm belief in me & bestowed upon me with all that I wanted or ever asked for.

However there are times in my life when I wish I had more liberty, to discover the world, move out & craft a whole new identity for myself.

Growing up, I came faced numerous hurdles, sometimes when I made key decisions of my life. People tried to bring be down, tried to demoralize me but I didn’t give up. I had chosen a path & I made sure I walk the path to achieve the goals I envisioned.  

When I graduated from college and was preparing for my MBA entrance exams, I had a relative come over to my house & he spoke to my dad about getting me and my sister married. My sister who is just a year older – was busy doing her Post Graduation at that very time. He said things like “Why are you letting your daughter’s pursue higher education, It is becoming extremely difficult to find grooms for girls these days, with education their expectations have gone high!”

For a moment after that man walked out from my house, he had influenced my dad with whatever he said – My dad did speak about marriage after that. However, after some time he forgot about it.

Education has been of utmost importance for everyone in my family. My dad constantly supported us when it came to education & motivated us to set high goals which we would never falter to achieve. Now as I grow up and have stepped the corporate ladder, there are certain boundaries or restrictions I have to keep in mind & follow.

When I speak about going to another city for a meeting my dad is very hesitant & disapproves for the same. When I talk about going to another country he once more disapproves. It is not because he doesn’t want me to grow and be successful; it is because he is overly protective because “I AM A GIRL”

The only thing which really upsets me is - My brother can go abroad for further studies, He can carve a career out for himself abroad, He is allowed to go on trips to other cities or for that matter other countries & while he can do all of the above mentioned things “I CAN’T” do the same. Not because I don’t have the competence but because the society will not like it & will scoff at us. 

Why does the society talk about marriage as soon as we finish our education & plan to work? Why can a boy think about his career but a girl can’t? Why such Double Standards?

I have least interest in the society; I don’t even care what they think about me. All I want to do is to live my LIFE my way. I’m sure there are many girls like me who feel the same, & who face similar issues daily. Every so often I feel like a bird whose wings have been cut off & can’t fly. 

When will the society learn to mind their own business & treat us “girls” equally? For how long will we have to curb our desires & do things according to the society? Only if dad knew & didn’t bother about what the society thinks but how it feels “On Being a Girl”….. 

Thursday, February 28, 2013

An awful start to the day!

The kind of people I have come across in the last few months had made it easier for me to believe that “Humanity doesn’t exist in this world anymore”  However, what happened with me this morning has certainly changed that thought a bit & made me feel positive.


This morning as I walked out of home to catch up with a friend for a quick breakfast before work – I carried a folder which has all my MBA Mark sheets, copies of my Resume &  some other documents. Little did I know that I would lose it by carelessness. YES! I forgot the folder in the rickshaw & didn’t realize it for the next 5 minutes & when I realized it, it was too late. The rickshaw was gone & so did the folder in it. I panicked & didn’t know what to do, I blacked out. It felt like my Life has come to an END!

In a city like Mumbai where there are lakhs of rickshaws & people- where tracking a phone one’s lost becomes impossible, I lost my mark sheets!  I was standing there cursing myself for being so stupid & careless, I still waiting there hoping the rickshaw walla will come back & hand over my folder – I was so sure he will, I kept reciting (إِنَّا لِلّهِ وَإِنَّـا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعونَ) Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un  -  My dad always says, whenever you lose something, forget something, can’t find it, recite this Dua, you will find it. I did & It worked!



Just after a few minutes I got a call on my phone from a college going girl who informed me that the rickshaw walla asked her to go through the folder & contact me if she finds any contact number. The moment I got a call from an unknown number I knew it was for my folder, the heart started beating fast & I was just praying before I picked up the phone that this call shouldn’t be of a telecaller or someone from a recruitment firm regarding a job. The girl then handed over the phone to the rickshaw walla & he promised to come back at the same place he dropped me  & he also gave me his number so I could contact him & know about his whereabouts till he reaches.



At last after waiting for 15-20 minutes, the rickshaw walla finally turned up & gave me the folder. I couldn’t Thank him enough & gave him whatever extra money I had. He wouldn’t take it but I forced & gave him. I was a little surprised when he didn’t want to take the extra money.  God Bless him. This man today actually made me feel that good people actually exist in this world.



A lesson learnt today ! Cross check 10 times before getting off a rickshaw & yes my marksheets are going right into my cupboard this evening as I head back home from work!

Thursday, May 17, 2012

MBA life ends

Since i haven't written any post for a while i thought i'll just write a small post today. So finally College life comes to an end and  looking forward to a new beginning. I can't believe MBA life of 2 years passed as if it were 2 months!

I recall how everyday we kept cribbing about our projects and presentations but somehow we just managed to balance our life + sleep ( 2-3 hrs at times) and social life (which was almost dead) lol..
Friends kept abusing of having build up an attitude and not having time for them. I'm sure they'll know the pressure when they are in the same shoes.

 Now looking forward to where life takes me. Couldn't feel more happier for having been blessed with the best.
Thank you everyone for your support , Special thanks to my lovely Parents :)