In life we come across many people, some stay, some leave, some become our best buddies and some share such a relationship that they become a part of your family and life. There are some people who would want to bring you down, people who can’t see others happy or succeeding in their life,these are people who are not aware of the happenings around them and even if they are aware of things happening around them they chose to behave ignorant and try to ignore everything and everyone around. All they care about is themselves and how they can do better and succeed in life, every step that you take towards perfection they will try to bring you down and try to act as a friend, even though they would exactly be the opposite.
A lot of people will claim to be your friends talk with you in sugar coated words and the moment you are out of their sight they will talk everything against you or as we say become back stabbers, these are people who are not worth your trust nor your friendship. A lot of times it will happen that, people whom you hurt the most will be the ones who would come to be with you when you need someone the most.
Many a times it so happens we don’t care about people around us, we only realise their worth when they leave. It is difficult to predict a person’s future action, every individual needs special care and attention, if they don’t get it, they would slowly move away from you to a better place, to a better someone to a better world where there would be people who would appreciate them,love them and care for them.
Every individual needs love and affection, if a person says he/she doesn’t need it, it is a mere lie. In life we go through a lot of ups and downs, that is how we learn, work on our mistakes and improve.We din’t learn to walk in one go, we went through different stages, we fell down, got hurt, but at the end of the day we did learn to walk.
In life we need to balance ourselves the same way, if there is a problem there would be a solution as well, there is no problem which can’t be solved, everything has a reason behind it and the reason we go through these ups and downs is to balance our life, to learn how to handle situations, to know how and when to react to a particular situation. Life would be boring without any challenges, it would not have been worth willing if we didn’t have to fight for something.
A little child is always present in each one of us, a person no matter how old he/she grows, the child always remains in there and it does come out at times and no other feeling is better than being a little child,living life without having to think about the responsibilities, expectations and duties that we have .
Life is too short, express yourself to people you love, live life as it comes, you never know “IF TOMORROW NEVER COMES” things which are inside you will always be buried deep inside, let the people around you know what they mean to you and how much they are worth and how life without them would be incomplete and boring.
Friday, October 29, 2010
Wednesday, October 27, 2010
Unconditional Love
The other day while travelling I came across this board which had this great thought written “A Child gives birth to a Mother”, I didn’t quite get the meaning of it then and thought it was rather stupid or didn’t make sense, but when I thought over it i realised that the statement was so very true.
When a child is born he/she gives birth to a “Mother”, in the same way when we were born we gave birth to our mother, as we came into this world we brought along with us an identity and gave birth to a new relationship, a wife became a mother and a husband became a father.
A child with the birth brings along with him/her a lot of happiness, gives birth to new relationships. Slowly as we grow up , passing the phases from being a toddler to a teenager and from a teenager to an adult, we are mostly dependent on our Parents, with time we start taking decisions on our own, we want to become more independent as each day passes, the dependency which we loved and craved for earlier becomes an embaressment to us, we feel embaressed to be dependent on our parents, slowly we become very conscious about what people would think about us or how a certain person would behave or react towards our actions.
It is the world which starts to matter more to us than our parents, we want to be known as independent individuals and not as a “mumma’s boy or girl” as they call it, But in all this we neglect something which is very important to each one of us as an individual, as a child, as a daughter or as a son, we tend to forget to thank our parents for the love and affection they have given us throughout the years, from the day one of our life.
Our parents who made sure we went to the best possible school,wore the best clothes, parents who were hurt and panicked when we fell, parents who taught us to walk, who always were there and continue to be there and help us with that extra push in our life while we make a decision . Why does it happen many a times that we tend to take their love and affection for granted?
Why does it so happen that suddenly their love and affection becomes embaressment to us infront of our friends? How can a stranger replace their place in our heart? How can someone else be so important to us than our very own parents? How can even this thought arise in our head? How can people forget those 9 months a mother keeps the child in her womb?
Parents are to be valued, loved and looked after, it is our duty to take care of our parents as they grow old,to understand them and be their friend as they grow old,we need to be patient and deal with them with love and affection the way they took care of us when we were babies. No matter how much you hurt your parents, they would still love you for who you are, no matter how bad or inhumanely you treat them.
Their Love is just Unconditional.
When a child is born he/she gives birth to a “Mother”, in the same way when we were born we gave birth to our mother, as we came into this world we brought along with us an identity and gave birth to a new relationship, a wife became a mother and a husband became a father.
A child with the birth brings along with him/her a lot of happiness, gives birth to new relationships. Slowly as we grow up , passing the phases from being a toddler to a teenager and from a teenager to an adult, we are mostly dependent on our Parents, with time we start taking decisions on our own, we want to become more independent as each day passes, the dependency which we loved and craved for earlier becomes an embaressment to us, we feel embaressed to be dependent on our parents, slowly we become very conscious about what people would think about us or how a certain person would behave or react towards our actions.
It is the world which starts to matter more to us than our parents, we want to be known as independent individuals and not as a “mumma’s boy or girl” as they call it, But in all this we neglect something which is very important to each one of us as an individual, as a child, as a daughter or as a son, we tend to forget to thank our parents for the love and affection they have given us throughout the years, from the day one of our life.
Our parents who made sure we went to the best possible school,wore the best clothes, parents who were hurt and panicked when we fell, parents who taught us to walk, who always were there and continue to be there and help us with that extra push in our life while we make a decision . Why does it happen many a times that we tend to take their love and affection for granted?
Why does it so happen that suddenly their love and affection becomes embaressment to us infront of our friends? How can a stranger replace their place in our heart? How can someone else be so important to us than our very own parents? How can even this thought arise in our head? How can people forget those 9 months a mother keeps the child in her womb?
Parents are to be valued, loved and looked after, it is our duty to take care of our parents as they grow old,to understand them and be their friend as they grow old,we need to be patient and deal with them with love and affection the way they took care of us when we were babies. No matter how much you hurt your parents, they would still love you for who you are, no matter how bad or inhumanely you treat them.
Their Love is just Unconditional.
Sunday, October 17, 2010
Misunderstandings
Misunderstandings are a part of everyone’s life. There wouldn’t be a single person who wouldn’t have faced a situation where he/she would have not been misunderstood.People often misunderstand the ones who are close to them, they fail to realise that “trust” plays an important role and not something that they have heard from someone else or may have felt without being told about.
Trust and understanding are the two most important factors in a relationship, if your relationship lacks trust and understanding, it won’t take long before a third person creates misunderstanding and the relationship becomes a past tense.
Believing others blindly can also lead to pain and suffering, Many a times we trust people too much or rather say believe them blindly and those people turn out to be fake and not keep up with the expectations,when the trust breaks its very hard for a person to start and trust that very same person again.
In life it is very important to listen to someone and reason out rather than snap at someone without finding out the exact reason behind a changed attitude or behaviour.
“It hurts when someone you know becomes someone you knew”
So treasure your friends and loved ones, do not break a relationship just because you think or heard the person broke your trust, rather sit down and try and work out the relation before its too late because we live just once and death is unpredictable, if that person is no more in the world tomorrow we will only regret for not having believed or not having expressed our feelings and that feeling would remain in the deep corner of our heart forever and we would only be saying “I wish I had…..” or “Only if i had …..”.
Because people once gone, don't come back again.
Trust and understanding are the two most important factors in a relationship, if your relationship lacks trust and understanding, it won’t take long before a third person creates misunderstanding and the relationship becomes a past tense.
Believing others blindly can also lead to pain and suffering, Many a times we trust people too much or rather say believe them blindly and those people turn out to be fake and not keep up with the expectations,when the trust breaks its very hard for a person to start and trust that very same person again.
In life it is very important to listen to someone and reason out rather than snap at someone without finding out the exact reason behind a changed attitude or behaviour.
“It hurts when someone you know becomes someone you knew”
So treasure your friends and loved ones, do not break a relationship just because you think or heard the person broke your trust, rather sit down and try and work out the relation before its too late because we live just once and death is unpredictable, if that person is no more in the world tomorrow we will only regret for not having believed or not having expressed our feelings and that feeling would remain in the deep corner of our heart forever and we would only be saying “I wish I had…..” or “Only if i had …..”.
Because people once gone, don't come back again.
Thursday, October 7, 2010
Think Before Judging
People usually say "The first impression is the last impression"...People who usually look very rude and arrogant are sometimes not exactly how they seem.
We often misunderstand a person by judging him/her by looks, which is wrong.. many a times we fail to realise that there is always a reason for a certain person to react in a certain way.
A person who looks tough and rude from outside may not be exactly be the same from within as well, most of the times people who are smiling and chirpy all the time turn out to be one of those who have been through alot in their life and suffered alot, yet they always have a smile on their face.
An orphan may have been through alot of difficulties, a child on the street may have had many sleepless nights,been without food for days, yet a new sunshine does bring in hope to them, they too dream and a small thing like smiling at them or spending some time with them makes them smile and feel special.
We will come across alot of people in life, all of them will be different in their own way, we learn alot from everyone, they are all different, special and unique in their own different way.
"We can't judge a book by its cover", Time is what helps people know others better,so its better to know a person before judging them just by their physical appearance because "Looks can be deceptive."
We often misunderstand a person by judging him/her by looks, which is wrong.. many a times we fail to realise that there is always a reason for a certain person to react in a certain way.
A person who looks tough and rude from outside may not be exactly be the same from within as well, most of the times people who are smiling and chirpy all the time turn out to be one of those who have been through alot in their life and suffered alot, yet they always have a smile on their face.
An orphan may have been through alot of difficulties, a child on the street may have had many sleepless nights,been without food for days, yet a new sunshine does bring in hope to them, they too dream and a small thing like smiling at them or spending some time with them makes them smile and feel special.
We will come across alot of people in life, all of them will be different in their own way, we learn alot from everyone, they are all different, special and unique in their own different way.
"We can't judge a book by its cover", Time is what helps people know others better,so its better to know a person before judging them just by their physical appearance because "Looks can be deceptive."
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